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Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Being Brave is...

Sometimes Brave looks like staying when you want to leave,
telling the truth when all you want to do is change the subject.
Sometimes obedience means climbing a mountain. 
Sometimes obedience means staying home.

Sometimes Brave looks like building something big and shiny.
Sometimes it means dismantling a machine that threatens to over shadow more important things.

We're addicted to BIG and sweeping and photo-ready, crossing oceans, changing it all, starting new things, dreams and visions, challenges and marathons, flights and ascending tall peaks.
But the rush to scramble up on platforms, to cross oceans, to be heard and seen and known sometimes comes at a cost.

And sometimes the MOST beautiful things we do are invisible, unsexy. 
We love broad strokes, cross-country moves, kick-starter campaigns.

But Brave these days is a lot quieter, at least for me.
Brave is staying put, when I'm addicted to rushing, FORGIVING MYSELF when I want that familar fresant of shame that I've become so used to using as a motivator.

Brave is LISTENING instead of talking.
Brave is ARTICuLATing my feelings especially when my feelings are sad or scared or fragile, instead of confident or happy or light.

Brave is walking away while the iron is hot mentality that pervades our culture.
Brave is about being intentional about taking your marriage from 'Fine' to 'Can't Live Without You'....

[It's easier to be impressive to strangers than behind the scenes.
It's easier to show up and be a hit for an hour than it is to get down on the floor with your kids when you are so tired that your eyes are screaming and bone-dry.
It's easier to be charming on a conference call, than it is to traverse the distance between you and your spouse, the distance you created.]

Sometimes being Brave is being quiet, 
being Brave is getting of the drug of performance.
FOR ME, BEING BRAVE is TRUSTING my God is ASKING OF ME,
what my family and community is asking of me
is totally different than what our culture says we should do.

Sometimes Brave looks boring, and that totally, absolutely OK.

~Present Over Perfect by Shauna Niequist