Friday, June 28, 2013

Right Now: Eli 9 months

This was a big month for you Mr. Eli. 
* you have now spoken your first words: Mom-ma & Dad-da 
* you are clapping and almost waving. 
* you remain to be a cuddler.
* you enjoy your cheerios after meals.
* you enjoy "the game": throwing things down to watch them fall & then wanting us to pick them up
* you are fulling speed-crawling, standing yourself up with furniture and "cruising"
* you continue to find Ian's sounds quite funny
* you look for mommy and daddy and conscientiously watch us as we pass through a room
* you are slowing beginning to indicate some of your needs & wants - when you look at an object for a while or squeal to us "I want that!"
* and some of the most fun now: you mimic our hand motions & our sounds! LOVE IT!





Saturday, June 22, 2013

Right Now: Ian 4 1/2 years

You continue to amaze me everyday and especially when you are so kind or you show your gentle personality to me. You are so caring at times that it melts me.

Your favorite movie lately: the Lorax: Larry boy - Veggie Tales

Your favorite food: Mac'n Cheese or green peppers and hummus OR PB&J

Your favorite pajamas: anything superhero (continues to be)

Your favorite song: Skillet's "Superhero" song - you have begun to like Toby Mac
      You are now more apt to sing song and get up and dance!

You love to "race" anything (most everything is a competition to you) and to play outside any chance you have. You are hilarious and ask for "special things". 

You look forward to playing with our neighbor Cameron any chance you get.

You enjoy: 
* watering flowers, 
* playing the Wii (especially boxing)
* going to any friend's house
* swimming (reluctant sometimes but learning)
* photography-taking pictures
* running - you just ran your (second race!) one full mile in 10:30 minutes!










Sunday, June 16, 2013

Travel Personality: I am a Centric Venturer

Centric Venturer

By definition, you fit between venturers and authentics but with a leaning towards the venturer side. Compared to other groups, you have lots of company. Three out of ten travelers (30%) place in your group, making you one of the largest segments of travelers. As a result, the majority of travel providers-airlines, resorts, rental car companies, tour operators, cruise lines, and others- place you at the top of their list of persons they want to reach and motivate to travel.

Top 30 Destinations for Centric-Venturers
U.S. Destinations
International Destinations
Your significance lies not just in how many people are like you, however. It also grows out of the fact that you are easier to motivate to take a trip or buy a product than the personalities that lie more on the extremes on either side of you. Venturers tend to ignore advertising. Authentics (at the opposite end of the scale) pay attention to advertising but their commitment to a regimen and daily routine makes it more difficult to change their habits and motivate them to take a trip. In contrast, you are more flexible and adaptable, with a willingness to sample new destinations if a travel promoter presents enticing advertising.
It would be easy to assume that you are simply an “average” personality and do not go to extremes on most things. This assumption, however, would cover over your much more unique personality characteristics and behaviors. More than other groups, you use mixed transportation modes for leisure travel. In the same year, you are likely to fly to one or two destinations and drive to a couple of others. In contrast, your counterparts prefer either to fly (venturers) or drive (authentics). Although air travel saves tremendous amounts of time when the distances are great, the convenience of auto travel (take everything that you want with you and leave when you want to), along with the ability to move at your own pace provides its own inherent interest.
Unlike venturers, you prefer at least a modest selection of good hotels and some quality commercial development before you visit an area. A good bed in a nice hotel, food that can be trusted, and a transportation network that can help you get around are what you consider to be basic necessities that you would like to see firmly in place before you visit. But, when over-commercialization sets in, signified by many souvenir shops, the intrusion of fast food outlets, and the diesel smell from too many tourist buses, you will move on to some other place that has not yet lost its qualities of freshness and uniqueness. The kinds of things that you like to buy on trips to foreign lands are the products that various countries specialize in as part of their national heritage. Thus, wool sweaters and skirts in Scotland or England; crystal in England, Germany or Scandinavia; pottery and silver in Mexico; or semiprecious stones from various countries around the world serve not only as reminders of a great vacation, but they can be used when you return home.
The great capitals of Europe have long been favorites, but some of these now seem overcrowded, far too expensive, and unfriendly in how local citizens treat tourists. Therefore, when you go to Europe you might visit smaller towns and enjoy leisurely drives through the countryside. And, when you go into villages, you particularly enjoy staying at quaint little bed and breakfasts (B&Bs) in contrast to well known hotels.
The diversity of the kinds of places that would be of interest to you opens up many more travel destinations of potential interest than is true for either venturers or authentics. You could enjoy a cruise in the Greek Isles, a car trip through gold mining ghost towns in California, or a shopping spree in New York City equally well. You will probably return to a place that you particularly like every two to four years, interspersing other new destinations (for you) in between. In some respects, you can have the most satisfying travel experiences because of your ability to absorb, and like, such different types of places. If you follow the typical pattern for your personality, you travel both independently (probably with a spouse or a friend) and occasionally take a fully escorted tour. This might include international tours and domestic to see New England’s fall colors, visit Southern mansions, or follow historic routes as part of a tour group. Depending upon your age, the Elderhostel program is largely made up of your type.
Cruising has experienced strong growth in recent years, thanks to the fact that you believe that the experience is not as confining as in the past. You have decided that it is affordable and more interesting than you ever thought. And, very important, it’s so easy and comfortable because your hotel room goes with you wherever you are and you don’t have to pack and unpack every day. You may also own a time share, the concept of owning one or two weeks of vacation time in a condo in a resort area. Time shares tend to offer excuses for travel and most of these owners venture forth regularly.
You have mixed media habits, combining both TV and reading. You enjoy quite a few shows on TV, read an occasional book, and some of the popular magazines.
In summary, you are part of a group that is very important to the travel industry, including destinations, airlines, hotels and restaurants. And, because you are generally easier to motivate for travel through advertising and are willing to visit a variety of destinations, most travel companies desperately try to focus on you and your needs. They offer lots of special deals and incentives to get you to travel. You use mixed modes of transportation to get there, tend to return to a place only if you especially like it but no sooner than three to four years, and you also mix up the kinds of lodging that you use. On the same trip you might stay at a three or four star hotel, an economy/budget motel, and a B&B.

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Boys & Learning - shared from a blog - 3 Boys & a Dog

Studies show there are real differences between boys and girls in terms of brain chemistry, maturation and how they learn best.  Technologies such as PET scans and MRIs have already found “at least 100 differences in male and female brains,” and there are likely more discoveries to come.
The following information uncovers some key insights into boys and how they learn:
Reasoning
Brain-based research shows that there are major differences between boys and girls in terms of reasoning and brain development, which leads to differences in general understanding of concepts as well as test-taking abilities.
  • Boys “tend toward symbolic texts, diagrams, and graphs” that “stimulate the right hemisphere, which is where many boys are more developed.”
  • They typically use abstract and deductive reasoning to reach conclusions, meaning that they are able to learn a general concept and then apply that concept to other individual cases.
  • Boys’ proficiency in deductive reasoning leads to greater success on multiple choice tests, particularly those where answering questions quickly is an advantage, like the SAT.
Movement
In order to learn most effectively, boys must stay active, engaged and motivated.
  • Staying active is an integral piece of effective learning for boys. “Movement seems to help boys not only stimulate their brains, but also manage and relieve impulsive behavior.”
  • Movement increases blood flow to the limbic region of the brain, allowing boys to process emotions and reduce stress.
  • “Physical exercise is essential for… boys.  It helps calm them, helps them sleep at night, and helps them perform learning tasks.”
Structure
A highly structured and action-packed day keeps boys’ minds alert and active.
  • Daily structure helps stimulate motivation, goal-orientation and time management skills.  In fact, the highly structured, full-day schedules of top boarding schools and military academies can be particularly beneficial
  • Task-oriented work and active interaction with learning materials increase the amount of information absorbed by boys’ brains.
  • A structured plan gives a boy’s brain a direct route to a goal, managing stimulation from other sources and increasing focus.
  • Calendars can be useful tools for boys since they provide visual and spatial representations of what they need to accomplish and how much time they have to complete the task.
Motivation
Boys tend to get bored more easily than girls.
  • The male brain literally requires a “recharge” between tasks, meaning that the brain goes into a rest state before moving on to something new.
  • “Boys require more and varying stimulants to keep them attentive” and to decrease the length of time that the brain is at rest.
  • Focusing on a goal maintains boys’ concentration and paves the way for success both in school and in life beyond the classroom.
Teams
Both boys and girls can benefit from working on teams through learning about cooperation and teamwork.
  • Boys differ from girls because they tend to “[pick] leaders quickly and [focus] right away on goal orientation.”
  • When supervised carefully, teams can be used to promote healthy competition, which often serves as strong motivation for boys to learn and succeed.
  • “Boys tend to work out codes among themselves and within their own cognitive processes, and rely on coded language to communicate,” which strengthens the bond within a team, while increasing learning through the use of symbolism and abstract thinking.
Boys Do Learn Differently
In summary, boys follow a unique learning curve, one that can be significantly enhanced in an environment that appreciates the differences between genders.  A setting that recognizes the cognitive, emotional and social processes which motivate boys to reach their full potential is the optimal learning environment for boys.

Right Now: Eli 8 months!

Mr. Eli you are such a joy! And such a great baby!

* you're officially crawling and picking it so quickly beyond the army crawl
* you're smiling usually always from ear to ear unless you're too tired or hungry!
* your arms begin flailing when you see anything remotely that you think must be eaten when you're hungry...
* you have such a sweet, cuddly nature to you
* you lay down usually after rubbing your eyes and I often place your blanket between you & myself and you dive your head into it - that let's me know that you are definitely tired, sometimes I sway with you a little and then I lay you down (you immediately roll over, grab the blanket and you make sure that you have your pacy)
* you do pretty well with vegetables, of course you like fruits, you're drinking less of your bottle it seems
* you completely LOVE Ian and now that you are mobile you try to get to any of his things as fast as you can before we get you
* you love to smack your hand on your chair tray and listen to the noises you make
* you do say "momma & dadda" at times but you don't seem to know what it means yet
* you started to imitate us waving...and clapping somewhat
* you can sit up easier now
* you are just sooooo precious

                     














Pinterest - yes I did it

I joined the Pinterest world about two months ago...and yes it is awesome and yes I love a lot of things and yes sometimes I just enjoying pinning but I also pin things that I WILL do....I told myself that in the beginning. Don't pin it if you're not gonna do it at some point.

So cheers to inspiration....the latest pins...Allowing Myself.....

to organize-rooms


to foster exploration


to create

the To-Do list: Weekend

As much as I love writing these down - it's just easier to type.

* balance cash-flow from May
* blog Eli's firsts: sitting up, crawling dates, momma & dadda, first parade & Strawberry festival
* letters to boys now
* blog Eli's 8 months
* look up Kroger, Target deals
* pick up--milk, formula, wipes, olive oil, spray for insects on roses
* pick more ROSES!
* look up Rose Gardening & Care
* send Kaleb present, sent Matthew present, send anniversary card to brother & sis-in-law
* drink lots of water
* load pictures of Strawberry festival
* think about Father's Day stuff